Long-Distance Sex Toy Guide: 5 Basic Remote-Control Sex Toys

Long-distance sex toys, sometimes called teledildonics, are toys specifically designed with long-distance couples in mind. You can use any sex toy to engage with your long-distance lover on camera or over the phone, but long-distance sex toys offer an interactive experience through Bluetooth and WiFi. The vibration patterns of long-distance sex toys can be controlled remotely through an app. Some teledildonic devices are compatible with virtual reality headsets, include proprietary video chat applications, or have the capability to sync with music or audiobooks.

Most sex toys designed for LDR couples are based on popular existing vibrators with added Wi-fi and Bluetooth capabilities. Common styles include:

1. 1. Masturbator sleeves: These sleeves, also known as strokers, wrap around the penis to simulate masturbation. Long-distance versions are remote-controlled, with multiple vibration modes and rings that contract around the penis.
2. 2. Rabbit-style vibrators: This classic vibrator provides both clitoral and G-spot stimulation for vulva owners.
3. 3. Wearable vibrators: These remote-control vibrators are designed to be inserted into the vagina or attached to the wearer's underwear. Some versions can be controlled with a smartphone app, allowing your long-distance partner to initiate powerful vibrations.
4. 4. Suction devices: Suction-style toys provide targeted stimulation to the clitoris to simulate suction during oral sex.
5. 5. Butt plugs: Many vibrating butt plugs are controlled via remote through an app. Some vibrating butt plugs feature an external massager to stimulate the perineum.

Here's how to put this technology to work.

1. 1. Check your Internet connection. Many high-tech sex toys will lose their functionality if your Internet connection is poor. Test your connection before using the toy, and set up your play area within reach of your WiFi signal.
2. 2. Avoid distractions. Many of the best long-distance sex toys rely on Bluetooth technology to connect your toy to an app on your smartphone. If you're using a penetrative toy with Bluetooth connectivity, keep your phone and toy close to maintain internet connection. Set your phone to "do not disturb" mode so that calls, texts, and email notifications won't take you out of the moment.
3. 3. Have fun with it. Long-distance sex toys are a fairly new technology, so their functionality may be inconsistent. Consider buying a versatile sex toy—one that's fun to use even if your Internet connection fails—so that you can keep playing even if something malfunctions.
4. 4. Don't forget foreplay. High-tech toys aren't the only way to enjoy virtual romance with your partner, and mixing old-school techniques with new ones will only enhance your long-distance sex life. Make time for virtual foreplay with sexting, sharing sexy playlists, and experimenting with different camera angles and positions.

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