How to Get a Dog to Like You: 5 Ways to Bond With Your Dog

Getting a dog to like you is a process of building trust and showing unconditional love to make your dog feel comfortable around you. You can bond with your dog by spending time with them and learning what they love. Getting your dog to like you can be difficult if you have a formerly mistreated rescue dog or a puppy you just brought home, but there are methods to help make your new pet feel like they are a beloved family member.

Follow these tips to develop a strong relationship with your pooch:

1. 1. Hand-feed your dog: On occasion, you can hand-feed your dog their food rather than give it to them in their regular food bowl. This can help a new dog warm up to you as they begin to associate you with their mealtime. Avoid making sudden movements and resist giving pats on your dog’s head if it’s your first time feeding them by hand.
2. 2. Know when to give them space: Sometimes, a dog needs their own space if they feel frustrated or tired. If your dog shows signs of irritability or exhaustion, lead them to their dog bed or kennel and let them wind down for a bit.
3. 3. Learn about your dog: Pay attention to your dog’s likes and dislikes. Pet parents might discover that their dog likes a certain type of homemade dog food or a specific toy. You can develop your dog’s trust as you learn about your best friend and show them that you know how to make them happy.
4. 4. Spend time with your dog: Giving your dog attention and spending time playing with them is a great way to show them you care. Dog owners can use a chew toy for a game of fetch during playtime, or you can simply cuddle on the couch together.
5. 5. Use positive reinforcement: Dog trainers recommend using positive reinforcement during potty training or when teaching a dog to unlearn bad habits. Using positive reinforcement training to correct dog behavior will help build trust rather than make them feel punished. Use treats and positive body language to reinforce good behavior and make your dog feel accomplished and safe.

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